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How’s Your Sensuality?

According to Aristotle, there are five primary senses: Sight Taste Touch Hearing and ... Smell And some people believe we also have a 6th sense, called extra-sensory perception. It’s the means by which we navigate and interpret…

Have you been betrayed?

Have you been betrayed? Most of us have, in some way. And it's painful! There are different types of betrayal, perhaps someone cheated on you? On the lighter end, perhaps your friend "threw you under the bus" with a joke they told about…

Over 40? Give Up Looking for a Good Man

Over 40? You might as well stop looking for a man! Because the good ones are already taken, and relationships are too much work, plus, the men your age are set in their ways. Besides, you’ve already lost your sexy and youthful looks. Are…

My Mom thought I was CRAZY!

When I told my Mom that I wanted to divorce my husband of 20 years, she said, "Are you crazy!?!" "Why would you leave a man who doesn't beat you, isn't an alcoholic, doesn't gamble away his paycheck, or cheat on you?" Maybe you think I'm crazy…

The Perfect Relationship is a Myth

Learning to trust your partner with crucial issues is probably the biggest struggle in two adults. You realize this is a long-term deal and therefore, anything that gets established now, must forever be that way.

The Right Way to Shop for A Man!

Are you shopping for a Man… like shopping for a car? Recently I was thinking about replacing my Lexus, with my dream car. I went to a couple of my favorite dealerships: Lexus and Mercedes. I knew exactly what I wanted for my…

Do you know the SMART way to RECEIVE a gift?

Yesterday I was chatting with the cashier as I left Loews. I asked if he was ready for Christmas and he said, "yes." "Really," I said, "you've done ALL your shopping?" "Yeah," he said, "I just get everybody gift cards." "Well,…
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Does it mean he doesn't love you if....

Does it mean he doesn't love you if.... he didn't give you the gift you wanted? Maybe your man got the wrong size, wrong color, or even the wrong item. Maybe you tried to help him by leaving little hints. Like leaving…

What are your RULES for dating?

You are probably aware there is a book about the RULES of dating. Actually there are many books about the rules of dating. They usually include suggestions such as, "when he rings the doorbell, wait a few minutes before answering,…

Detachment vs Connection - what Gottman says...

You probably know that I am a big fan of John Gottman, the internationally famous relationship expert. A lot of his ideas are in many of the messages I send to you. But today, I am sending you a message directly from his Institute. This…