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Are you attracted to Fantasy Love?

When I was a Junior in High School, I “fell in love.” I was sure he liked me too! He was a football player, but not one of the bragging types. He was sweet and shy, mostly quiet. We had one class together, and I could tell his…
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What's your level of Emotional Honesty?

In our previous Newsletter we said there are two KEY Essential Behaviors necessary for building a healthy relationship. both people need to be emotionally honest, and both people need to be willing to do the work to build the relationship. Today…
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The TWO Essentials for a Great Relationship

Recently a client, who lives in San Diego, asked me this question: "Through online dating, I've been in contact with a man who lives in Los Angeles (about 3 hours away). He asked me to drive up to meet him. Should I go?" Here is my…
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How’s Your Sensuality?

According to Aristotle, there are five primary senses: Sight Taste Touch Hearing and ... Smell And some people believe we also have a 6th sense, called extra-sensory perception. It’s the means by which we navigate and interpret…

Have you been betrayed?

Have you been betrayed? Most of us have, in some way. And it's painful! There are different types of betrayal, perhaps someone cheated on you? On the lighter end, perhaps your friend "threw you under the bus" with a joke they told about…

Over 40? Give Up Looking for a Good Man

Over 40? You might as well stop looking for a man! Because the good ones are already taken, and relationships are too much work, plus, the men your age are set in their ways. Besides, you’ve already lost your sexy and youthful looks. Are…

My Mom thought I was CRAZY!

When I told my Mom that I wanted to divorce my husband of 20 years, she said, "Are you crazy!?!" "Why would you leave a man who doesn't beat you, isn't an alcoholic, doesn't gamble away his paycheck, or cheat on you?" Maybe you think I'm crazy…

The Perfect Relationship is a Myth

Learning to trust your partner with crucial issues is probably the biggest struggle in two adults. You realize this is a long-term deal and therefore, anything that gets established now, must forever be that way.

The Right Way to Shop for A Man!

Are you shopping for a Man… like shopping for a car? Recently I was thinking about replacing my Lexus, with my dream car. I went to a couple of my favorite dealerships: Lexus and Mercedes. I knew exactly what I wanted for my…

Do you know the SMART way to RECEIVE a gift?

Yesterday I was chatting with the cashier as I left Loews. I asked if he was ready for Christmas and he said, "yes." "Really," I said, "you've done ALL your shopping?" "Yeah," he said, "I just get everybody gift cards." "Well,…