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Should I let him chase me, or treat him badly?

A few days ago, I received the following email from a client. "My girlfriend recently was treated badly by a man she thought was going to be a long-term partner. She then decided that she gave too much love and affection and that she should…
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The AWFUL truth about Relationships

Seems like people want to believe that if you find “the right one” then everything will be all sunshine and roses. In that scenario, the conflicts are easily resolved, there’s never hurt feelings or anger, and the sex is amazing. So,…
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You're not BARBIE and he's not KEN!

You’re not BARBIE and he’s not KEN! Sometimes women mistakenly believe there is an ideal female image, and they should clone themselves to look like her. Did you play with Barbie dolls when you were young? You may subconsciously…
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The Ways to a Happier Love Life

Just do more of what you love. That sounds too easy, right? But, what if it's mostly just a choice…. to choose what makes you happy? For example, if you're at an event, and you don't like it…you can choose to leave. You don't…

Is COMPATIBILITY the Key to Happy Relationships?

Is compatibility the key to Happy Relationships? The concept of compatibility (matching interests) is used by most online dating websites, to find an ideal partner. This assumption, of compatibility as the relationship key, is also used…
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Why I Was So Frustrated with My Husband

The other day I got frustrated with my husband! He keeps starting projects and not finishing them, and therefore he leaves stuff around. For example, he may sweep up something, but then he leaves out the broom and dustpan. Or he works…
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How to Recover from a Breakup

Breakups are rarely easy! And there are lots of different types of breakups. The casual breakup for example: You meet someone online, go out a few times and then you get ghosted. It hurts, but you'll get over it pretty easily. Another…
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When You Really Love Yourself, Magic Happens

Frankly, I find this saying really annoying, because, of course, everybody would love themselves…if they knew how! So, why don't we know how? Because, early in our childhood we received numerous messages that we weren't okay. Not…
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Healing from Drinking the Deadly Poison of Unforgiveness

“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” This quote has been attributed to many different people, from Buddha to Nelson Mandela. But regardless of who said it, holding onto bitterness and…

What a Great Relationship Means to Ones in Love

Is a negative voice in your head saying…"well maybe some can have one, but I don't even know if I want a relationship." "It's too much work. And there's no guarantee it will be great." "And all the Good Men are already taken." There…