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Are you attracted to Fantasy Love?

When I was a Junior in High School, I “fell in love.” I was sure he liked me too! He was a football player, but not one of the bragging types. He was sweet and shy, mostly quiet. We had one class together, and I could tell his…
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What's your level of Emotional Honesty?

In our previous Newsletter we said there are two KEY Essential Behaviors necessary for building a healthy relationship. both people need to be emotionally honest, and both people need to be willing to do the work to build the relationship. Today…
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The TWO Essentials for a Great Relationship

Recently a client, who lives in San Diego, asked me this question: "Through online dating, I've been in contact with a man who lives in Los Angeles (about 3 hours away). He asked me to drive up to meet him. Should I go?" Here is my…
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Does it mean he doesn't love you if....

Does it mean he doesn't love you if.... he didn't give you the gift you wanted? Maybe your man got the wrong size, wrong color, or even the wrong item. Maybe you tried to help him by leaving little hints. Like leaving…

What are your RULES for dating?

You are probably aware there is a book about the RULES of dating. Actually there are many books about the rules of dating. They usually include suggestions such as, "when he rings the doorbell, wait a few minutes before answering,…
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Should I let him chase me, or treat him badly?

A few days ago, I received the following email from a client. "My girlfriend recently was treated badly by a man she thought was going to be a long-term partner. She then decided that she gave too much love and affection and that she…
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You're not BARBIE and he's not KEN!

You’re not BARBIE and he’s not KEN! Sometimes women mistakenly believe there is an ideal female image, and they should clone themselves to look like her. Did you play with Barbie dolls when you were young? You may…

I Can't Find Any GOOD Men!

My best friend was really frustrated! She said, "I've been dating a LOT, but I can't find any good men!" Personally, I could always find good men to date, and other women had asked me for help, so, I said I’d help her.…

Why Do You Keep Attracting the WRONG Men?

Why do you keep attracting the WRONG men? First, here's the bad news: If you were raised in a dysfunctional family (and most of us are to some degree), you are carrying baggage. As children, we are open and vulnerable to the…
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How to Recover from a Breakup

Breakups are rarely easy! And there are lots of different types of breakups. The casual breakup for example: You meet someone online, go out a few times and then you get ghosted. It hurts, but you'll get over it pretty easily. Another…