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Does it mean he doesn't love you if....

Does it mean he doesn't love you if.... he didn't give you the gift you wanted? Maybe your man got the wrong size, wrong color, or even the wrong item. Maybe you tried to help him by leaving little hints. Like leaving a magazine open…

What are your RULES for dating?

You are probably aware there is a book about the RULES of dating. Actually there are many books about the rules of dating. They usually include suggestions such as, "when he rings the doorbell, wait a few minutes before answering, so…

Detachment vs Connection - what Gottman says...

You probably know that I am a big fan of John Gottman, the internationally famous relationship expert. A lot of his ideas are in many of the messages I send to you. But today, I am sending you a message directly from his Institute. This…
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Should I let him chase me, or treat him badly?

A few days ago, I received the following email from a client. "My girlfriend recently was treated badly by a man she thought was going to be a long-term partner. She then decided that she gave too much love and affection and that she should…